Friday, September 26, 2008

Happy Birthday Lowell!!


On Sept. 14th we celebrated Lowell's 5th birthday with a party and a Max and Ruby "worm cake". It was so fun to see Lowell really get that it was his special day and enjoy it with friends and family.

We have had a busy fall. Lowell does not have school on Friday morning's so we've made a really fun routine of getting together with my parents and enjoying the glorious fall-time weather here in the twin cities. We've enjoyed trips to the farmer's market, the Minnesota Landscape Arboretum, several apple orchards, the Minnesota Zoo. The kids have fared well and really enjoy our field trips.On Saturday, September 20th we particpated for the second year in the Autism Speaks Walk Now for Autism fundraiser. Our family raised over $1600. A sincere thank you to those that donated.
The walk took place on the horse track at Canterbury Downs.
Lowell is doing very, very well with his new schedule. After graduating from his Autism Day Treatment program, he is now in an inclusion room three mornings a week at St. David's. He seems to be fitting into the class very well and continues to make great strides. He also attends an integrated preschool room in the afternoons. Great reports all around so far. We are thrilled!

Hope you've having a great fall!

Saturday, August 23, 2008

The graduate!!!


Well, after a bit over 2 years, yesterday was the day that Lowell graduated from his Autism Day Treatment program. Wow, we are so very, very proud! He has come so far with the help of so many wonderful people. This week was one of celebration and extreme emotions saying good-bye to this program that has been such a big part of all of our lives over the last several years. He is now moving on to a typical classroom with a respite teacher for added support and his integrated pre-school through the school district that he was in last year and made remarkable progress. The future is looking bright for little Lowell:)

Here are some other summer highlights.

Bobo with his buddy Lowell at the wildflower garden.

Lowell drawing pictures in the sand at the cabin.

Being goofy on the dock.



4th of July parade in Cannon Falls.

Graduation day! Lowell reading his diploma.



Some of Lowell's best friends:)

Sunday, June 08, 2008

Early summer...

We went to the Farmer's Market today downtown Minneapolis. Lowell did pretty well in the busy market. Lots of people and things to look at.I think he enjoyed looking at the bees the most. Pretty cool.
Lowell is talking up a storm and we're thoroughly enjoying having more meaninful conversations with him. His latest obsessions are keys and garage door openers. Looking forward to a fun filled summer with more time at home with Lowell. He still has his Autism Day treatment program in the morning, but now has his afternoons "off". He loves to be outside and loves to "help" daddy build a new shed.
Sometimes it's nice to have a few mellow moments just strumming the guitar. Lowell is starting one-on-one music lessons with the music therapist he has in his treatment program. I think he'll really enjoy it.

Monday, May 12, 2008

It's warming up...

and that means lawn mowing time! Lowell has been mimicking Joe's every move and enjoys doing work outside. There's plenty to do this time of year!

Monday, April 28, 2008

Waterslide fun!

Unfortunately I don't have any pictures to post from this past weekend, but I wanted to share what a fabulous time Lowell had at the Great Wolf Lodge and Waterpark in Wisconsin Dells. I had never been to the Dells, but we have family in Milwaukee and wanted to meet somewhere half way. Boy did Lowell have a blast!!! There were some neat slides for kids that he went on over and over and over again. He had a ball in the wave pool too! He even went on an inner tube waterslide with daddy. Such fun and sooooo wonderful to see the joy on his face:)
Almost as exciting as the fun we had is that is he seemed to do very well in the hotel room. We had a large condo area so there was a living room, kitchen and several bedrooms. He did not obsess on the outlets at all. Yay!! He played with doors a bit and wanted to take walks around the halls quite a lot, but he was very mellow, not overstimulated and really engaged with everyone there. It felt so normal...and so fun!!!!!!!!!!!

Monday, April 21, 2008

Spring has sprung!

Spring has finally arrived here in Minnesota! Lowell has been outside non-stop playing in the sandbox, riding his tractor, just generally running around having fun. We love to see that!!Last week I started some seeds in a tray with the kids. They enjoyed planting and watering the seeds. They will eventually go into a small kids garden we plan to have this year.We are doing the Autism Speaks WALK NOW FOR AUTISM again this year. It's on my birthday, September 20th! Our family web page for the event is here.

Monday, March 24, 2008

Happy Easter!

Lowell really got into Easter this year, which was so fun to see! As you can see here, he was a man on a mission.

It was so cute how he would open up each egg as he found it and see what's inside then either play with the toy or dump the candy into his basket.
He even ate some of his chocolate bunny. Normally he doesn't eat much chocolate, but he knew a good thing when he saw it!
So fun to see his progress and ability to now enjoy some of my favorite traditions:)

Thursday, February 07, 2008

First update of 2008!

Our family is doing just great! I painted these little wooden people to resemble each of us and the kids just adore them. It's so fun to see them carrying their little person around and identifying them. As you can see, we even took them on a field trip out to the woods!

We are going through some big changes as 2008 picks up steam. The official word is that Lowell is going to "graduate" from his Autism Day Treatment program at the end of the summer. Of course this is wonderful news. It means that he has come a looonnng way in these last two years and is ready for the next step. But are WE? I've been making lots of phone calls and having meetings regarding what his school schedule will look like come fall. He will stay in his current integrated preshool through the school district in the afternoon and so I'm trying to fit the pieces together for him to get what he needs in the morning. It has been difficult for me to think that he's going to go away from theraputic, controlled setting of his treatement program cold turky. I am so very, very proud of him and how far he's come, but of course deep down inside I'm the mama bear wanting to make sure he's getting what he needs. It seems like we've come up with a good plan. He will have Mon., Wed. and Fri. mornings home with Chloe and I. That will be a wonderful treat to have him around more for this last year before kindergarten. Yes, I said kindergarten...ahhh!!:) On Tue. and Thur. he will be a regular pre-school room at the same school he's been at, but will have the added support of a respite teacher. That should be a wonderful transition to get ready for school. He will be with kids his own age, at a place that is very familiar to him, with the support that he needs. We will also obtain private speech a few times a week. So we are excited that the future is looking bright and keep reminding ourselves that this is what we have been working towards. This is what early intervention is all about. Change is good:)

Sunday, December 23, 2007

Happy Holidays!

The letter to santa has been written...
Presents were discussed....Lowell was great about meeting santa, Chloe...not so much.The holidays are here! Wow...what a year this has been for Lowell. A GREAT year....dare I say, his best year yet!

Here is Lowell's "school" picture this year from his Autism Day Treatment program. I just love the picture and made this collage frame to house it. Speaking of which, there was a story on Lowell on the front page of the St. David's fall publication. You can read it here.

We've been so pleased with the progress that Lowell has made this fall. He really has made some major breakthroughs with his social skills, his speech and requesting. It's so wonderful to see.

Hope you and yours are well this holiday season.
Looking forward to an exciting 2008!!!

Sunday, October 28, 2007

In one week....

Just last Saturday we finally decided to bite the bullet and try and potty train Lowell. He is four years old, after all, and after two and a half years of two kids in diapers I was ready to lighten the load a little. After thinking about it (and worrying) for over a year how it may go and hearing heartbreaking stories of autistic kids well into elementary school and not yet potty trained, we figured there's no better time to dive in and see what happened. Lowell is in such a good spot right now in his life. He has been developing wonderful social skills, a delightful sense of humor, much more verbal communication and he, himself, seemed to be getting pretty tired of diapers. So last Saturday we put him in underwear. He had been in underwear before for short chunks of time, just to see if he was going to have any sensory issues. Everything seemed fine. We put him on the potty about every 10 min. and he went a few times that first morning. He definitely didn't like the feeling and when he was about to go he would start to cry. We knew that it would take some adjustment and the more he went in the potty and got used to the feeling, the better. She went in his pants several times as well. He wasn't really aware that the underwear was not a diaper and didn't seem to care. So the first day was 10 min. off the potty, 5 min. on. It was a long day....By the second day, he seemed to understand "holding it" a bit better. We waited him out several times on the potty knowing that he needed to go and didn't want him to get off and immediately go in his pants. By the end of the weekend we felt he had come a long way, but had no idea what was in store for him...and us...at school the next day.

He started off great with only an accident or two and was holding it for short chunks of time. Actually on Monday afternoon he held it at his integrated preschool class all afternoon. He got home and wouldn't go, but eventally did and we were feeling like things were going to be ok. As the week went on the progress report was that he wasn't having accidents at all. He was brought to the bathroom every 20 min. or so, but didn't go every time.

Then by Friday we found that a few times at his Autism Day Treatment program he was going into the bathroom on his own. This weekend at home he stops whatever he is doing and goes into the bathroom and takes care of business, flushes the toilet and is done. We're in awe!! Of course there are still a few accidents and he still won't do #2 in the potty, but we're making great progress. Today we even took a trip to Target, went on a long walk and he held it the whole time. We came in and prompted him to go and he went...all on his own. We are amazed at how far he has come in just one week! Yay Lowell....as we like to say around here:)

Saturday, October 06, 2007

Walking for Autism....

Here we are today, Team Lowell for Autism Speaks Walk Now for Autism here in the twin cities. This is part of the team for Lowell's Autism Day Treatment program.
We walked 3 miles around Lake Nokomis.

Lowell walked quite a bit of it!
We raised about $1000 for a wonderful cause. Thanks so much for all your contributions and support. It is very much appreciated!

Saturday, September 22, 2007

Turning four...

Lowell turned four on the 14th. He is doing so well. This was the first year he seemed to actually get that it was his birthday. That was so fun to see! He was interested in opening gifts for the first time ever. What do you suppose was in this GIANT box?
His very own tractor. How cool! He loves it:) He is doing extremely well with his new "all day" schedule. He is in the Autism Day Treatment program in the morning, same as usual. Now in the afternoon from 1-3 pm he goes to an integrated pre-school where half the class is "typically developing" kids and the other half is special needs kids. We have been getting glowing reports about him playing very well with the other kids, using lots of language and lots of great interaction. Yay! We are thrilled to hear that this is working out. He seems to be in a wonderful phase right now. Hope it keeps up! However tonight he had a terrible trip at the park as he was running up some stairs to go down the slide. He split open his chin. The cut does not look deep, but some skin was definitely shaved off and there was lots of blood. Ouch!!! He's a tough kid and handled it pretty well.

Did you all see the Oprah episode this week on autism? Lots of information from it is here.

Happy Fall!!

Sunday, September 02, 2007

Moving into fall...

Hello again! Gosh I've had a hard time keeping up with this blog. I do want to say that I appreciate the comments from folks that happen to come across this blog and feel inspired to send me a note about autism. They've been through similar experiences or are currently going through them and offer their compassion and support. It really means a lot. Thank you!
After our summer trip to the cabin (see last post), Lowell had a rough patch. His tantrums grew very intense and he became very fickle about sensory issues. I had trouble keeping my patience with his hugely variable moods that changed at the drop of a hat. He wouldn't let us take his diaper off or put a new one one and he wouldn't let me touch him at all when he had a dirty diaper. His mood has definitely gotten better and more even, however the diaper issues continue. It's frustrating because we'd really like to start potty training Lowell and he seems to be ultra-sensitive with his bodily functions. As the summer draws closer to fall Lowell has gotten out of the August difficult period (same thing happened last year) and is delighting us with her verbal abilities. He is using lots of words spontaneously and appropriately and has developed quite a sense of humor. We also thoroughly enjoy watching him play with his side-kick kid sister. They are quite the pair! Interesting to read this post from a year ago almost to the day and we were experiencing similar joys.As you can see from these photos, we made it to the State Fair this year. It seemed pretty over-stimulating for Lowell and fans in the buildings really set him off, but he did really enjoy the tractors on machinery hill! He had to make sure his seat belt was securely fastened:) We feel it's a good exercise to expose him to some new experiences.
We're excited for our new schedule this fall. Chloe starts pre-school 2 mornings a week and Lowell continues the Autism Day Treatment program 5 days a week. In the afternoons he will begin an integrated pre-school through the local school district. We're hoping it's a good exeperience for him. I'll keep you posted.....


On October 6th the kids, Joe, my parents and I are all doing the Autism Speaks Walk Now for Autism here in Minneapolis. Here is our pledge page. If you feel inclined to make a donation to our team for Lowell, it would be much appreicated.

Happy Fall!

Friday, August 10, 2007

Need to remember this...

{Nothing in life is so hard that you can't make it easier by the way you take it}
..quote by ellen glasgow